Thus, a person who is always angry is not liked by other people, nor does a person want to be in a state of anger all the time, Anger comes.Anger and irritability are not limited to adults but are also found in children. The only difference is that children’s anger and irritability are usually not paid attention to, which worsens the situation and creates a lasting negative impact on the children’s personality.
The role of parents is most important in children’s personality formation and emotional ups and downs. If there is any kind of deficiency in the training of the children by the parents, it is very likely that the children will get angry or quarrelsome. For example, children who are exposed to unnecessary scolding by their parents are relatively more likely to develop irritability.Another common mistake parents make is to cater to the child’s every whim. There comes a time when the parents are unable to satisfy the child’s stubbornness but because the child has got used to it and suddenly starts getting irritated when the parents forbid it.
The relationship between the parents is also very important in this regard.
Another major reason for developing these emotions in children is the environment around them. Children’s teachers, relatives and neighbors are involved. For example, interfering with children’s work, making fun of a mistake, taunting them, or raising their hands on children, etc.
These negative emotions can be removed from children by following the following steps.
First, parents and adults must recognize that anger is an emotion that exists in children as well as adults. When this thing is understood, the treatment will also be easy.
No matter how many differences parents have, they should not fight their battles in front of their children, as this creates very negative emotions in children, which become a part of their personality throughout life. Would you want your short fight or ego victory to have a negative impact on your children’s life-long personality? no way. So be careful from today.
The second thing is to give a special place to moderation in your temperament and in the training of children. Adopt the principle from the beginning that you should try your best to satisfy every legitimate desire of the child, but reject any kind of illegitimate objection with gentleness and understanding.
The third thing in this regard is to keep an eye on the surrounding environment of the children and their mood. If so, sit down as friends and discuss the matter with the child lovingly.
This is not a children’s story but a map of every home. Intolerance in children develops gradually, not suddenly. Intolerance is the name of the extreme form of desire, will, choice, autonomy and emotion. It originates when children are fed in the shadow of TV or mobile phone. The same scenes make a place in the child’s heart, they crave for them and gradually become accustomed to them if provided.
Often the screen is also used to avoid children’s mischief and children start to consider it their natural right to get the beautiful scenes they see on it. Not only this, but the child is asked his choice in food and drink, what to eat at that time?
Today, such homes are usually overcrowded and the children are single. Parents appear to fulfill the children’s requests like Chirag’s jinn.
On the other hand, children getting insufficient attention also makes them irritable, angry and stubborn. The child wants to share his likes and dislikes, desires and observations with the parents, but apart from their busyness, the parents also sit in front of them and pay attention to their mobile phones. Apart from this, nowadays parents don’t even give time to children to obey orders.
They say one thing and rush to obey. The child is late, wants to be pampered, even though he is small, his speed is slower than adults, and then the execution of unwanted work becomes slow. In such a case, parents’ prompting shows the way to prompt the child.
The faster the tempo of the music, the lower the intolerance in humans. International media outlets have always acknowledged this. The Rand Corporation and its affiliates are leading the world into an endless frenzy. Every once in a while orders are issued by media houses to turn up the music and lights and they are well aware that the coming generation is suffering from its severity. Now it is to be seen whether the parents can stop this series or not.
Firstly, the cone is easy to bend, the trunk of the tree cannot be bent. Therefore, corrective suggestions also start from childhood.
Don’t always ask young children for their preferences and opinions on food and clothing. Feed and clothe them as you please and do not show them too much variety. (At first there was never any choice in food. What was cooked was the same food for everyone.) If the child shows dislike, first instill the love of that food in his heart, it will definitely take time.
Don’t act hastily with Chou by scolding too much, but make your choice his choice with friendship and love. It also tests your skills. It’s not too difficult, at first you engage him in conversation, later he will want to talk to you and listen to funny stories.
Children are quickly caught in the love of the screen because the psychology of children creates colorful interests. Try to keep the child’s exposure to the screen to a minimum and make them aware of the implications if exposed and make them aware that it is not difficult. The child will take the screen’s attention in a limited way. Childhood consciousness remains throughout life.
When a child is angry at the non-fulfillment of a desire, parents should not try to suppress his feelings by force or strictness, but by lovingly explaining and directing his attention to alternative entertainment or engagement.
