If we do not promote second marriage, adultery will become common. Especially after Corona, the situation has become such that second marriage is promoted, because many women have become widows during Corona and they are willing to become second wives. In today’s situation, second marriage has become the most important need of the time. If we turn a blind eye, we will also be an equal part in the spread of sin in the society.Seeing us all excited, he got more excited. He tried to find at least one like-minded person in today’s gathering. But we are all timid, we don’t have the courage to face the society, we are looking for easy virtues.Suddenly there was laughter and the party was dismissed. But his conversation opened new windows in my mind.
The very next day I met her father, who is a retired engineer and is suffering from loneliness, diabetes, high blood pressure after the death of his wife, has no one to take care of him and is here today on a visit visa. I prepared them by telling them that I have complete knowledge about marriage office, as I have done this job two years ago. He reported the whole situation to his son from the second marriage.But instead of being happy, the son took a U-turn. Because in case of the father’s second marriage, he had to give a share in the property to his stepmother. He began to narrate the pitfalls of second marriages and recounted stories of friends who have regretted remarriage, as other wives ran away after looting lakhs of rupees. The arguments in favor of a second marriage which he had given in the gathering of friends were lost somewhere. Because on the whole we are the breeders of such hypocritical attitudes where it is customary to consider things as good or bad according to our desire.
But Babaji had seen a way out of loneliness, so he persisted. After bitter arguments, Babaji left for his country to marry again.It is my humblest, fiduciary request that you consider the elders around you. If your father has lost his spouse, get him married immediately by abolishing the Hindu ritual, so that he can live the rest of his life in peace.Unfortunately, in our country, second marriage has been made a curse and the second marriage of elders is considered to be as bad as a major sin. In practice we do not hate adultery as much as we do second marriage. Although traveling together at this age is more important than other periods of life, but we understand only when time comes to itself, God willing.
Although this is the decision of the Qur’an, marry two, three, four, if you can do justice, and if you can’t, then one is enough. But we believe in Allah, we do not believe in Allah. They believe in the Messenger, they do not believe in the Messenger. We are ready to give our lives in the love of the Messenger, but we are not ready to follow him and the result is in front of you that today’s Muslims are being beaten everywhere, sometimes by their own hands and sometimes by strangers.There is a need to popularize second marriage, because currently there are 40 to 60 million widows and divorced women in Pakistan who are not happy.
Those who have status should come forward and be the means of spreading this good in the society. If there are elders or young people around you who are deprived of a spouse, try to convince them or their children in the level of goodness in your free time to marry the elders and if possible, guide them properly. .Remember, if we do not wake up or if we continue to be afraid of the division of property, the day is not far when adultery will become common and we will continue to suffer. And then it is a Muslim fact that as you do, you will be filled.
It is my humblest, fiduciary request that you consider the elders around you. If your father has lost his spouse, get him married immediately by abolishing the Hindu ritual, so that he can live the rest of his life in peace.
Unfortunately, in our country, second marriage has been made a curse and the second marriage of elders is considered to be as bad as a major sin. In practice we do not hate adultery as much as we do second marriage. Although traveling together at this age is more important than other periods of life, but we understand only when time comes to itself, God willing.
Although this is the decision of the Qur’an, marry two, three, four, if you can do justice, and if you can’t, then one is enough. But we believe in Allah, we do not believe in Allah. They believe in the Messenger, they do not believe in the Messenger. We are ready to give our lives in the love of the Messenger, but we are not ready to follow him and the result is in front of you that today’s Muslims are being beaten everywhere, sometimes by their own hands and sometimes by strangers.There is a need to popularize second marriage, because currently there are 40 to 60 million widows and divorced women in Pakistan who are not happy.
