In the painting class, the teacher asked all the students to create a different but balanced picture. Adequate time was also given for this photography, but out of all the photographs produced, not a single one could meet the teacher’s standard. All the students had worked hard for themselves and they were also declared correct, but the teacher apologized for declaring them all balanced.In response to the students’ question, he said that no image is proportional anywhere. Somewhere colors have been used more and some where imagination has left the side of the canvas. Somewhere one line has been replaced by another and somewhere the scene is telling a different story. That is, no one could accurately describe the purposes of his image.
All the students were wondering what further comments would be made on their pictures but the teacher continued by saying that the pictures are not correct because what should be there is not there.Just like our relationships are like colors in pictures. Sometimes it is grandfather, father’s compassion and sometimes mother’s affection. Sometimes it is the feeling of siblings and sometimes it is the love of husband and wife. All these relationships add color to the canvas of our lives. A picture is completed and we create a masterpiece. But where the balance between these relationships is not maintained, ugliness starts to arise from there.Every relationship has a place. Mother’s importance in its place, sister’s sanctity in its place and wife’s love in its place. Similarly, relationships between teachers, students, colleagues and friends are different but must be balanced. If you value one relationship more and the other less, that is also wrong. But if we always give importance to a relationship, then tomorrow we become cheap only for it.
It is human nature to be sincere only to a certain extent. After that, his loving hand becomes empty. When relationships are removed from their place, love and respect also begin to fade. As in a picture, if there is only blue in the picture, then the naturalness is lost and the attractiveness of the picture starts to be affected.We find all relationships in our life good, yes some people we call bad because we have bad experiences and attitudes with them. We should not give them an opportunity to tarnish their image once we get upset with someone’s behavior. These relationships are harmful like black dots and spots on white paper.As the person who plays such a role in your life, his imprint becomes deeper in your mind. You can never forget such a good teacher. You will always remember the smell of food from mother’s hand. Siblings remembering your birthday and nudges put a smile on your face and having a life partner makes your life even more beautiful.
The teacher concluded by saying that my duty as a teacher is not only to make you a good painter but also to make you a good human being. It is your responsibility to make the picture of life as balanced and attractive as a fictional picture.In this era of self-centeredness, people have reduced their contact with each other very much, they meet each other only at weddings, festivals or any event, otherwise who has so much time to visit someone’s home especially. Go meet. Nevertheless, people do not hold back in putting evil in each other’s hearts. They leave no stone unturned to provoke each other. After all, why don’t they think that this kind of behavior plays an important role in spoiling relationships and breaking hearts.
Why don’t we think about the impact it will have on our future generations, what will they learn from us, what will we tell them about respect for relationships, so that children will have less respect for adults in their hearts. It happens. These seem like small things to say but their effects are deep and bad, its negative effects have created cracks in family lives. The relationship ends in a moment.Relationships of cousins are very good, they are associated with many beautiful childhood memories, but how to put them together. By believing the words of others, the affection, love and sincerity of the relationship ends in a moment. It must be considered for a moment that it can have an impact on your life as well. One way or the other, you may also have to bear the consequences. For God’s sake! Don’t do this. Anyway, life is four days, we are spending it by fighting with each other, complaining, accusing each other.
Remember, these are the best relationships that lighten each other’s grief and share pain. We need to change our thinking angles, how long will we continue to live in conspiratorial attitudes. Take responsibility for your relationships, be forgiving, and broaden your horizons to strengthen your relationships.Allah has blessed us with very good relationships, we should appreciate them in every way, just like a person needs oxygen, so also relationships are needed, so maintaining them is a sign of wisdom. Relationships are neither broken by staying away, nor connected by staying close, but they are tied by the strong thread of trust and sincerity, it is in your hands to break and connect them. Who knows the importance of relationships better than a woman?
